Wednesday, January 21 2015
When Desire Luzinda's pics leaked, it was a matter that took the country by storm. All local newspapers, radio and TV stations featured the news item, foreign media agencies like BBC and the Daily Mail also covered the issue.
Now another fairly elderly woman, Allen Brandy, has also hit the scene trying to give Desire a run for her money. In the pics, Allen is showing off what her mama gave her in all angles.
Now, before you click the send button, you need to know that a photo once out there, you have no control of where it ends up nor can you retrieve it. Allen took over 50 shots.
The pics were leaked by a one Anilah who found them on her lover's phone. Leaking Allen's pics on the internet might not be a solution for stopping your boyfriend from seeing Allen if at all they were at it.
You may do it just because you do not want to hurt your boyfriend, but saying NO and you stand by it will make him appreciate your values more and this will also help your relationship.
If your boyfriend cares for you, he will not want to put you in a situation that makes you uncomfortable, and if saying NO is hard, you could supplement it with words like; What if your parents or siblings landed on the pics?, that could be a polite way of saying NO.
Allen has since deleted her facebook page.
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